Connect4.Chat

Connect4.Chat, new friends for University of Michigan students

  1. 1You fill out & submit the survey
  2. 2We verify student status, review answers, and confirm you are in
  3. 3Your personalized matches are sent with a bio & game plan
  4. 4You meet your new friends for coffee
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Student testimonials

  • “The experience went really well! We met at Sweetwaters, chatted for over an hour, and exchanged Instagrams to keep chatting with each other.”

    First-year, University of Michigan
  • “Funny enough, I was paired with someone I knew from freshman year. We met and have become lifting partners, and we play ball now.”

    Sophomore, University of Michigan
  • “It was awesome to get connected with people I wouldn’t normally have connected with, but have things in common with!”

    Master’s student, University of Michigan
  • “Super easy way to be introduced to students who are similar to you. I appreciate it, since it is harder to find other master’s student friends.”

    Master’s student, University of Michigan
  • “Quick to sign up, and I like the plannedness. Simple confirmation, and I met some interesting folks.”

    PhD student, University of Michigan
  • “Nice knowing that I am meeting people who also have the interest and intention to make friends.”

    Master’s student, University of Michigan

How it works

  1. Submit Friend Survey

    You fill out information about yourself and your preferences via an online or text survey.

  2. Team Review

    We verify student status, read through every answer, and confirm you are in for the next round.

  3. Learn Your Match

    Your personalized matches are sent to you with a bio and game plan the Tuesday before you meet.

  4. Make a New Friend

    You meet your new friends at a coffee shop on campus.

Matching numbers

  • 350+ students signed up
  • 97% of students who meet make a new friend
  • 85% want to come back for another round
  • 50% higher meet-up rate than other programs
  • 11 great possible matches per student

Science behind matching

  • Your preferences
  • Hobbies
  • Interests
  • Major
  • Values
  • Privacy first

    Only your matches see your name, program, hobbies, interests and the weekly question. No one outside our team sees it.

    Privacy and sharing
  • Research focus

    The team has conducted 200+ interviews with students about friendship, read the latest friendship research (Hall, Brooks, the U.S. Surgeon General), and taken part in friendship fellowships.

    Meet the founder
  • Grounded in preferences

    Values, numbers and location. You choose your own adventure.

    See the survey

Matches are made by hand by the Connect4.Chat team. Where the friendship goes from the first coffee is up to you.

Frequently asked questions

Who can join?

Any current University of Michigan student.

Is it free?

Yes, no cost to you.

How do I sign up?

Online at connect4.chat/form, or by text: send “Let’s make a new friend!” to 248-420-3034 and the same survey comes back by text. About five minutes either way.

Where do we meet?

At coffee shops on campus, like Sweetwaters at the Michigan Union or Mujo on North Campus. The exact place comes with your match. Have an idea for an event or another spot? Tell us.

What should we talk about?

Anything you like. We developed these questions to give you interesting places to start.

Is this a dating app?

No. Connect4.Chat is for making friends.

College can be hard. Making friends should not be.

Sign up by Monday, November 9 at 5 PM ET and you are in the round that meets the weekend of November 13 to 15.

Make a new friend

Mission Statement

Life is hard. Making friends should not be. But with third spaces disappearing, life moving onto screens, new cities to call home, and hectic weeks meeting someone new keeps getting harder. So we make space for exactly that we match you with new friends and you meet in person. No cost, and you choose your own adventure.

founder

Matthew Guella (Ross '20 & Yale SOM '26) founded Connect4.Chat after doing ~200 interviews about human loneliness. He has built community through being the Social Chair at ZS (Chicago) & Bain (Austin), launching Pulse in '26, and hosting monthly dinners for the last decade. Any questions ping him

Possible discussion questions for new connections to chat through

Not required to use, but research shows going deeper is better than staying surface level to form new friendships

questions